is it all that wrong to conform if that’s really the only way to stay low? people have a natural tendency to bond over complaining/making fun of others, but for someone who’s sensitive and worrisome, i’m torn between staying quiet and being out of the conversation entirely or adding some trashtalk about someone i mildly dislike and being kind of in. this is a lame issue. i feel like, for me, it’s hard to stay quiet because i hate not being part of something. that’s quite problematic, and i have to fix this.